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Spending time in prayer
Many express a desire to pray more, but when it comes down to the practice of prayer they find it difficult. The purpose of this article is simply to equip you for the work of prayer. God has graciously given us prayer and invited us to spend time with Him in prayer.
Jeremiah 33:3 ‘Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know.’
Upon reflection this invitation truly is an amazing privilege. Why don’t we pray more? Why do we struggle? The notion sitting in prayer can cause reactions that range from boredom to intimidation. The fear, boredom, and the busyness can keep us from praying. We need confront this reality with a responsible maturity and move forward.
Road maps help us to get where we are going. As you make repeated trips you get familiar with the way to your destination and you need the map less and less. That is why this article is being written to give you and idea of what prayer can be. This is a road map for prayer, so you can learn get on your way.
Do You Know How to Pray?
It is a silly question, right? Actually we need to ask. We shouldn’t assume that prayer comes naturally. Many of us learn to pray by the examples around us. Sometimes the examples aren’t the best. We need to pull the map out and make sure we are headed in the right direction. We all have something to learn when it comes to prayer.
Even the disciples asked Jesus to teach them to pray. Those of us who feel comfortable with our praying abilities can be humbled when we see even the disciples ask. Surely the disciples knew how to pray, but they saw a whole new definition of prayer when they witnessed the prayers of Jesus. They needed to be taught.
As we consider our personal prayer life we should show the same desire to learn from one who truly knows how to pray. Our prayer should be “Jesus, teach me to pray.”
What does prayer look like?
There is a great variety in prayer. There have been many different concepts presented to us some false and some true. We will consider God’s Word to bring us a true and right the example.
When we speak of prayer we realize it is not just the simple memorized prayer from our childhood. We are talking about much more than one mode of prayer. There are many kinds of prayer. Here is a short list for prayer for; meals, our need, other people’s needs, confession, praise, thanksgiving, and healing. Prayers can be quick, long, public, private, conversational, or memorized. Prayer can be very different.
We can have quick prayers covering these needs throughout our day. We can have prayers to begin or close our day. My consideration here is setting aside a time to pray for a half hour or an hour, as well as a half day or whole day of pray. First I would like to consider some patterns of prayer in the Word.
The Lord’s Prayer
Luke 11:1-4
And it came to pass, that, as he was praying in a certain place, when he ceased, one of his disciples said unto him, Lord, teach us to pray, as John also taught his disciples.
And he said unto them, when ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. Give us day by day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.
Let Us Pray
The disciples are so moved and motivated by the way Jesus prayed that they ask Him to teach them to pray. I believe the request is to be instructed in prayer but also to be taught to practice prayer, simply to do it. We can have all the “know how” but if we don’t actually pray our knowledge is worthless. Like the disciples we not only need the “how to” but we also need to be disciplined to make time to pray.
The first lesson of the Lord’s Prayer is to simply pray. From there the Lord’s Prayer truly becomes an outline for us to pray, a prayer map. Many of us know this prayer by heart and many of us can pray it verbatim. If you can pray this prayer word for word with your heart engaged and in agreement then by all means you should. But this not just intended for reciting, we should also step back and realize that it also a “way” for us to pray. If we look at the structure we can begin to see the “landmarks” along our map for prayer.
We are challenged to take a deeper a deeper approach to prayer. As we step through each /////////// you will have the opportunity to make this prayer your own. Each time you pray this points will be filled with the aspects of your personal life. This prayer will connect you relationally to your Heavenly Father.
Praise
“Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.”
We start our prayer with the instruction of Jesus to address the Father. We begin a time of praise by acknowledging God and His character – “Father you are holy, righteous, majestic, all-knowing, loving, gracious . . . “ this acknowledgement can continue as you are lead to extol the nature and character of God.
Our acknowledgement of God’s character easily overlaps with thanksgiving. Continuing to praise the Lord our hearts overflow with thanksgiving, thanking Him for who He is and what He has done. “Lord thank you for your grace, you have made it so evident in my life today, thank you for the counsel of your Word . . .”
You will have the opportunity to see this line of praise from the Lord’s Prayer expanded with your own personal words. The richness of this personal praise and thanksgiving becomes strong foundations for the rest of our prayer time. Praise adjusts our perspective. Personal praise transitions us on to our next landmark on our prayer map.
Perspective, God’s will, and obedience
“Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth.”
We now come to an encouragement to remember and refocus. This is a time to remember we are headed to an eternal destination, our home with Jesus. Often we get distracted with life and get consumed with worry. We forget where we are headed, where we belong. Jesus could call at anytime. He could call us home today. Pause for a moment – Think – Today. Think about it, dwell on it, we could see Jesus face to face today. That being the case what would you like to accomplish today? What would you like to avoid? These considerations tend to remind us what is important. We are called to refocus our eyes on Jesus.
We could rest here for a moment and consider the throne room of God, His glory, the praise, the angels responding obediently to the Lord. His will being done.
One day that will occur here, His kingdom will come, His will will be done.
Oh that it would be true in our hearts today.
“Lord I think of Your kingdom, your way, and I can’t wait. Lord I realize I could see you today, life is brief, help me to live for you. Show me what is important. I want to comply to your will. Help me to be obedient. Come quickly Lord Jesus.”
A desire for obedience should drive us to Him. To do His will we will need help, resource, counsel and equipping. We will need to ask.
Provision
“Give us day by day our daily bread.”
We need His help. We need the Lord’s provision.
We should stop and realize that the provision spoken of here is not just for the physical and practical, but the spiritual and relational as well. We need to prayer for God to provide for our faith.
“Lord, nurture my faith. Establish me in Your ways. Teach me Your Word. Bond my heart to Yours”
The mention of the daily bread reminds us of the daily provision of manna for the Israelites in the wilderness. The children of Israel were instructed to go out early in the day to gather their manna for the day. They couldn’t gather for the next day. The manna would rot overnight. It needed to be collected daily. Only over the Sabbath were they given rest. This taught them to be close, consistent, responsible, involved and dependant on God. We need to stay close to Him.
These same lessons are here in these words “Our daily bread.” We can not intend to pray one day and hope that will stretch out for the next few weeks. No, it doesn’t work that way. We are taught to come to Him daily in prayer, in His Word, and in fellowship with Him.
We tend to forget that this daily bread, in fact all things, comes from Him. We shouldn’t take credit for God’s blessings. If you have a job, if you have a talent, a family, friends, good health . . .this is a reminder to give Him thanks and credit.
“Lord I know all that I have is from you, thank you. Lord, You now my needs today. You know what I face, Lord I need your provision.”
Confessions
“And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us”
Sin separates us from God. Sin can hinder our prayers. We do not want anything to separate us from God. We do not want anything to hinder our prayers. We need to confess, to repent, to ask Him to cleanse us.
“Lord forgive me, search my heart, wash me and cleanse, reveal to me areas that need your forgiveness.”
Because we have been forgiven so great a debt, we need to be a forgiving people. We should not be easily offended. We should not hold onto bitterness. We need to let it go, we need to give it to the Lord, we need to forgive.
“Lord you know the hurt I have carried, I bring it to You so that You can heal me, help me. Lord, help me forgive. Show me anyone that I need to graciously release in forgiveness. “
These prayers can be personalized according to your situation and the leading of the Holy Spirit.
Protection
“And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.”
There is so much temptation that pulls at our hearts. Temptation traps us and distracts us. It comes at us from all different angles.
“Lord you know my struggles. Keep me away from those situations that bring temptation. Direct me away from the very things that pull me down. Lord build my faith so that I am not so vulnerable to these traps.”
It is not only the reality that we are weak that concerns us. We also have an enemy, Satan. The Word tells us he wants to destroy us. He is strong. We need God’s protection.
“Lord you know the way Satan is after me. I need protection. I need your strength. I need your help.”